16 types
INFP and ENFJ
INFP keeps a personal standard and a private weather system. ENFJ will make sure the group becomes a group, and will anticipate needs before they are said. That can feel like being understood. It can also feel like being organised past the point where INFP still recognises the day as their own.
INFP needs room, and needs to know the room is still there. ENFJ needs to let people do the same care back, instead of holding the culture and every task. A deadline helps INFP when it is real. A social plan helps ENFJ when it is not the only way the care is allowed to show up.
Ask INFP what they can stand behind before you build the week around a role they never agreed to. Ask ENFJ what they need for themselves, in one plain sentence, because they will otherwise spend it on the group. The pair works when the gathering has a purpose INFP chose, and when ENFJ is allowed to be in it rather than hosting all of it.